Do away with the pressures..

Do away with the pressures..

Do away with the pressures….😣😩😤. (Matt 12:20) What some call drama is actually trauma for some others. When people tell you they can’t bear something, don’t force them to do it (which would be abuse or controlling) neither should you belittle or disbelieve them because you will be invalidating their realities (which is also bullying … Continue reading

Entitlement mentality…..

Entitlement mentality…..

Entitlement mentality…..😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫(2Cor8:12) If you often feel unappreciated after giving to some folks, you may need to learn to distinguish between those in need and those with greed. It is important that we be givers, that we learn to meet needs that can make life better for people and society. Sometimes, we don’t have the best, … Continue reading

Loving yourself….

Loving yourself….

Loving yourself!!! 😍😍(Prov 14:10) Yes, it’s mothers day. And happy mothers day but have you been taking care of you? If you haven’t been doing this, then you have been shortchanging yourself. No one knows you like you do, no matter how much they love you. Only you know your real heart desires so only … Continue reading

Forgiving and Forging on…..

Forgiving and Forging on…..

Forgiving and Forging On…🙋‍♂️🙋‍♀️ (Prov 19:11) Forgiving does not mean forgetting. You may remember the events but because you have already forgiven, the matter will not consume you. When you forgive, you take a decision about the offense which is that, you are not seeking any form of retaliation towards the offender. Forgive means you … Continue reading

Examine the cords…..

Examine the cords…..

Examine the cords….🧐🧐🧐 ( Prov 27:17) You are being belittled and disrespected anytime you need to walk on eggshells to be yourself or do what you want. This means you need to get someone’s approval to engage your own individual uniqueness. It is when an individual is incapacitated that he may need others to make … Continue reading

Loving right….

Loving right….

Loving right …. ❤️❤️❤️ (Mark 12: 31) No matter how much you desire to quench another’s thirst, You can’t give out of an empty cup. Many relationships are shallow because people share more of their fantasies than their realities. No matter how lofty and noble your expectations are, if you don’t know how to actually … Continue reading

Rebuilding the broken..

Rebuilding the broken..

Rebuilding the broken….💝💝 (Is 58:12) Before any individual can flee any traumatic environment, she/he needs to develop a sense of Safety. She is already in an unsafe place and the last thing she will be willing to do is move into an unpredictable environment. People remain in abusive relationships because they become desensitized when they … Continue reading

Getting your peace right…

Getting your peace right…

Getting your peace right….🤦‍♀️🤦‍♂️(Prov24:17-18) If someone does wrong to you, they can suffer for the consequences of their poor actions, but it won’t be because of you but because they didn’t do the right thing. If you need some justice or compensation, look to God to fill in the gap. God will make things right … Continue reading

Breaking free….

Breaking free….

Breaking free…….🔓🔓🔓 (Is 58:6) There will always be times when we have to make compromises for the sake of maintaining healthy relationships. We are to practice forbearance because no one is perfect; we all have our foibles, and this will help to give us personal and interpersonal peace. However, when we find ourselves under the … Continue reading

Walking by faith..

Walking by faith..

Walking by faith …..⭐⭐⭐(Rom 1:17) It’s important to believe that things can be better than what we currently experience. Faith helps us go higher than what we can do for ourselves, and God actually calls us to live by faith. Faith is being assured of what you are hoping for. However, to avoid disappointment, it … Continue reading