Make your own bed….

Make your own bed……🤔🤔🤔 (Rom 6:16)

It doesn’t matter if you think you are helping others or not; if you are not allowing them the chance to make decisions for themselves or if you make threats when your opinions are not taken, then that’s controlling behavior.

Each individual is responsible for his choices in life. Even children bear the consequences of their behavior. Sometimes, you hear people say things like ‘blame it on me’, but the fact of the matter is that for whatever you take part of, you still will be held responsible for your own consent to such arrangements.

Those who have no responsibility for the outcome in your life have no right to tell you what to do; that’s control and manipulation. Don’t let people make you feel you are guilty or disrespectful for not doing what they dictate.

Care offers directions and does not dictate instructions. Learn to discern between emotional blackmail and genuine concern. Consider the outcomes of your choices not in terms of how people will feel but the impact of your decisions overall.

As you journey on this year, identify poor influences over your life in the past and learn to make choices that benefit your mental and physical health.

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