Blessed not stressed…

Blessed not stressed…

Blessed not stressed…..(Prov 10:22) It is okay to need help and look up to others to receive some assistance in life.  However,  when anyone expects to partake in what you have simply because they you have it, then that’s out of place. A lot of people get bogged down by a false sense of responsibility … Continue reading →

Wholeness…..

Wholeness…..

Wholeness….. 🤎🤎🤎 (3John1:2) As physical wounds don’t heal by shaking them off but only by applying the right treatment, so it is with the psychological. Any one in pain needs help  that will help them get better regardless of the cause of that pain. It is easy to dismiss the emotional pains people have because … Continue reading →

Give as you have….

Give as you have….

What you give is not determined by what people want from you but what you have with you. God doesn’t call you to give what you don’t have . The trick of frustration is to try to get you to give or think what you need to give is beyond you. Silver and gold have … Continue reading →

Shine your light..

Shine your light..

Shine your light…..⭐⭐⭐ (Matt 5:13) We live in interesting times where not only are we careful not to impose our values on others but much more many of us are afraid to take a stand in other to fit in or to avoid the risk of being canceled. Yet, every individual is a unique being … Continue reading →

Wisdom is profitable!!

Wisdom is profitable!!

Wisdom is profitable….👌👌👌(Prov 22:3) You need to choose your battles wisely. You can’t afford to say ‘bring it on’ to whatever nuisance issue that comes your way and expect to be in a great shape psychologically. Some of the best strategies to keep your domain are those of preservation and not necessarily those of confrontation. … Continue reading →

Preserving relationships.

Preserving relationships.

Preserving relationships….🤔🤔 (Prov 6:2) Commitment is not about making promises but being sure that no matter what happens you will be accountable or available. When people ask for a token of commitment or security before they invest in something particularly with friends, it is not because they are selfish rather they are wise to separate … Continue reading →

Keep showing up

Keep showing up

Keep showing up….👌👌👌 (Heb 4:15) The imposter syndrome has a lot of people doubting their skills or credibility. When you need the same service you provide, it doesn’t mean you are not competent, it only shows you are human and it underscores the relevance of your service. As a matter of fact, being a subject … Continue reading →

Getting desired results..👌👌👌 (Prov 4:7)

Getting desired results..👌👌👌 (Prov 4:7)

Getting desired results..👌👌👌 (Prov 4:7) When giving people instructions or directions, always try to add the ‘why’. It’s funny how sometimes people are offended when others ask for a reason for what they do or are being told to do, knowing the ‘why’ is necessary. Understanding is the why of any knowledge. It facilitates the … Continue reading →

Stay unique…😎😎 (Ps 139:14)

Stay unique…😎😎 (Ps 139:14)

Your identity is what distinguishes you from others. It is an anomaly to be bothered or ashamed of your identity because you can’t be separated from it. Those who try to change their identity don’t understand that there’s no one person or combination of individual traits and characteristics that is superior to another.. moreover, there … Continue reading →

Emotions and sentiments…🧐🧐(Prov 18:13)

Emotions and sentiments…🧐🧐(Prov 18:13)

There’s a clear difference between emotions and sentiments. A lot of people shy away from acknowledging and expressing their emotions because they don’t want to be seen as being sentimental. Often, times women are often poorly labeled being emotional as though there was a fault there. We are all emotional beings; it is abnormal not … Continue reading →