Loving right….

Loving right….

Loving right …. ❤️❤️❤️ (Mark 12: 31) No matter how much you desire to quench another’s thirst, You can’t give out of an empty cup. Many relationships are shallow because people share more of their fantasies than their realities. No matter how lofty and noble your expectations are, if you don’t know how to actually … Continue reading →

Rebuilding the broken..

Rebuilding the broken..

Rebuilding the broken….💝💝 (Is 58:12) Before any individual can flee any traumatic environment, she/he needs to develop a sense of Safety. She is already in an unsafe place and the last thing she will be willing to do is move into an unpredictable environment. People remain in abusive relationships because they become desensitized when they … Continue reading →

Getting your peace right…

Getting your peace right…

Getting your peace right….🤦‍♀️🤦‍♂️(Prov24:17-18) If someone does wrong to you, they can suffer for the consequences of their poor actions, but it won’t be because of you but because they didn’t do the right thing. If you need some justice or compensation, look to God to fill in the gap. God will make things right … Continue reading →

Breaking free….

Breaking free….

Breaking free…….🔓🔓🔓 (Is 58:6) There will always be times when we have to make compromises for the sake of maintaining healthy relationships. We are to practice forbearance because no one is perfect; we all have our foibles, and this will help to give us personal and interpersonal peace. However, when we find ourselves under the … Continue reading →

Walking by faith..

Walking by faith..

Walking by faith …..⭐⭐⭐(Rom 1:17) It’s important to believe that things can be better than what we currently experience. Faith helps us go higher than what we can do for ourselves, and God actually calls us to live by faith. Faith is being assured of what you are hoping for. However, to avoid disappointment, it … Continue reading →

Winning over worrying….

Winning over worrying….

Winning over worrying…… 👌👌👌(Phil 4 :6) Two people may be in similar situations, but each person’s approach will determine the outcomes. It’s easy to be pessimistic in a challenging situation but that will not take you forward. Sometimes, people think holding pity parties will bring solutions. Not so, when others only pity you, they will … Continue reading →

Avoiding Disappointments…

Avoiding Disappointments…

Avoiding disappointments….🤔🤔🤔(Prov24:3) Be careful of your expectations of people. A good number of relationships are suffering from the outcomes of faulty expectations. It’s not that what one party desires is out of place but the possibility that the other party is lacking or ignorant of the skills to meet that desire. We grow up with … Continue reading →

Beyond oppression….

Beyond oppression….

Beyond oppression…. 😑😑😑(Matt23:11) A lot of us find ourselves in cultures and settings where positions of authority are assumed to be synonymous with control. However, what both leaders and even those in their care don’t know or practice is that being in leadership is to be in service. Leadership is not for oppression but for … Continue reading →

Anchored for life…

Anchored for life…

Anchored for life….⚓️⚓️⚓️ (Matt 24:35) How do you value yourself? What do you think about yourself? We are always in changing situations and life settings. Life is full of ups and downs. There are times we feel good and, at other times, terrible. And so we can’t always depend on our assessment of ourselves. We … Continue reading →

Already preferred….

Already preferred….

Already preferred….❤❤❤ (Ps 5:12) There are times you wish you had someone step up for you at work, school or some other occasion in life. It’s not easy being overlooked by others but one thing that’s for sure is that God’s favor surrounds us like a shield. It’s tough not being chosen for something you … Continue reading →