Tagged with life

REACHING FOR HELP

REACHING FOR HELP

It’s often tempting to shut down in self-pity, when we find ourselves in a conflict situation. While we hope to get some form of consolation from this, we discover that we feel worse and the situation may degenerate. This is where the necessity of external counsel comes from. When we are burdened by our own … Continue reading

BROKEN SPIRITS

BROKEN SPIRITS

I have often said it and will keep saying it: Never let the actions or words of another person define your worth as an individual. When people misbehave and say or do hurtful things, it only defines the kind of persons they are. Their words and actions reveal their own character and personal content, not … Continue reading

CELEBRATING SPECIAL ABILITIES

CELEBRATING SPECIAL ABILITIES

Today we celebrate with persons with ‘distinguished abilities ‘ and not disabilities as often communicated. These are special people. Of course, we all are special in one way or the other. The important thing to note here is that these are individuals with different abilities not disabilities . They may require assistance to do some … Continue reading

THE MAN, HIS PERFORMANCE & HIS PEACE

THE MAN, HIS PERFORMANCE & HIS PEACE

I have discovered that a good number of men tie their peace to their performance in life and this has done more harm than good to them and their loved ones. We must learn to enjoy life, no matter what responsibilities we face, because life will always be full of ups and downs. Your life … Continue reading

BEYOND SEXUAL ASSAULTS…

BEYOND SEXUAL ASSAULTS…

Anybody who says he can’t have a relationship with someone who’s gone through a rape or abuse is probably perverted himself because his perspective reveals the kind of person he is. For him to look down at another person shows that regardless of how highly he might have placed himself, the fact remains that he … Continue reading