If your job or your relationship makes you cry constantly, you need to stop and ask yourself: Are you working with or dating an onion? Now as funny as that might sound, it is the truth. A lot of people are stuck in jobs and relationships that make them constantly unhappy. They have more reason … Continue reading
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DEAD WOMAN…WALKING!
I have come to realise the importance of having a life. I mean not just being able to breathe but exercising one’s existence in a meaningful way. My personal experiences have all come to point to the fact that my life is in gear for a great purpose. I cannot afford to waste my authenticity … Continue reading
WHAT WOULD YOU LIKE ME TO DO…FOR YOU?
What does service really mean to us? Is it about pursuing our own interests or meeting the needs of others. I have discovered that often times, when we get hurt in serving others, it is usually because things are not done our way or in a manner that favours us. Despite the fact that we … Continue reading
REACHING FOR HELP
It’s often tempting to shut down in self-pity, when we find ourselves in a conflict situation. While we hope to get some form of consolation from this, we discover that we feel worse and the situation may degenerate. This is where the necessity of external counsel comes from. When we are burdened by our own … Continue reading
KEEP MOVING ON
It will be great to say that we are all ready to take on the New Year, that all has been well and couldn’t be better. But I know that’s not the case with so many of us. We all have (or had) different challenges through the year; some almost took us out but by … Continue reading
BROKEN SPIRITS
I have often said it and will keep saying it: Never let the actions or words of another person define your worth as an individual. When people misbehave and say or do hurtful things, it only defines the kind of persons they are. Their words and actions reveal their own character and personal content, not … Continue reading
YOU CAN’T DO IT ALONE
There’s so much competition in the world; and many individuals and even organisations, sad to say, assume that the way to the top is to beat others to get there. Some have even made surpassing the performances of others as their primary life or career goal. What they have failed to understand is that life … Continue reading
CELEBRATING SPECIAL ABILITIES
Today we celebrate with persons with ‘distinguished abilities ‘ and not disabilities as often communicated. These are special people. Of course, we all are special in one way or the other. The important thing to note here is that these are individuals with different abilities not disabilities . They may require assistance to do some … Continue reading
THE MAN, HIS PERFORMANCE & HIS PEACE
I have discovered that a good number of men tie their peace to their performance in life and this has done more harm than good to them and their loved ones. We must learn to enjoy life, no matter what responsibilities we face, because life will always be full of ups and downs. Your life … Continue reading
ON YOUR WAY TO THE TOP
Are you happy where you are right now ? Do you feel unfulfilled working in someone else’s establishment? If there’s a common misconception among employees and aspiring entrepreneurs these days, it is the notion of being an employee is a less dignifying work option than being one’s own boss. Working as an employee will not reduce … Continue reading